Hits Once Can Hit You Again
I've never been in a human relationship before due to personal reasons but later watching and listening to so many abuse stories, I feel similar lxxx% of the time, a man WILL strike again later on he'due south forgiven the get-go time. I can't predict the futurity merely I think i'd go out my (future) partner the first moment he laid his hands on me.
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Yep. In one case a beater always a beater.
I know someone that got beaten upwards past her boyfriend and she forgave him and later a year later they got married and judge what, he did it over again a couple of times, fifty-fifty when she was pregnant. So yeah. Not only her story but many others too.
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Not admittedly, but it's a practiced dominion. The real question is, if he could do information technology once, why not again? What was so terrible and extreme about that incident that you know it won't happen again? Life is full of ****ty, stressful times, at that place's no alibi for hitting women. Leave, leave, every fourth dimension.
It depends on the situation. In most cases I'd say get the hell out of there directly abroad.
If I'd been with someone for x years incident gratis and and so they hit me, I'd have to wonder what on globe I did to warrant such a reaction, and make a sentence on whether it was a 1-off or if they really did have a tearing streak.
(Original post by Mankytoes)
Not absolutely, merely information technology's a good rule. The real question is, if he could practice it once, why non again? What was and so terrible and extreme about that incident that you know information technology won't happen once more? Life is full of ****ty, stressful times, in that location's no alibi for striking women. Exit, exit, every fourth dimension.
Non just women...
(Original post past Mankytoes)
Not absolutely, but it's a good rule. The real question is, if he could do information technology once, why not again? What was so terrible and extreme about that incident that you know it won't happen again? Life is full of ****ty, stressful times, in that location'south no excuse for hitting women. Exit, exit, every fourth dimension.
Yeah my step dad used to hitting my mum, it sucked. Don't stay with a guy who treats you like that, e'er. Information technology really ****ed up my mum and my childhood
Its not "will he" merely more like "when". I think once is is one too many. Virtually domestic abuse stories ive heard are from existence hit once then they carry on equally presently equally & in other cases some were later a twelvemonth or 2, the violence continued.
If a bloke/lass hits you lot once, whether they'd hit you again is irrelevant, you should throw out the waste of space immediately.
(Original postal service by That_Hijabi)
I've never been in a relationship earlier due to personal reasons but later watching and listening to so many abuse stories, I experience like 80% of the time, a human Volition strike once again afterward he's forgiven the first time. I can't predict the future only I think i'd leave my (future) partner the starting time moment he laid his hands on me.
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Non necessarily, it might accept been a ane-off moment and that he truly didn't mean to do it and honestly really regrets it and vows to work on cocky-command. But if anyone ever laid a mitt on me, i-off or not, I'd exist gone. Information technology's not something I would have a chance with. Aforementioned with cheating. Certain, people tin change and there are exceptions but physical abuse, emotional abuse and cheating (basically a class of emotional abuse) would **** with whatever relationship and in that location would be no room for second chances.
(Original postal service past Mockery)
If a gars/lass hits you once, whether they'd hit you over again is irrelevant, yous should throw out the waste of space immediately.
What if yous're married to them?
I retrieve that's when you get a little stuck..
Can the thread be changed to partner? Because women hitting men too.
And the respond is yes. If they hit you one time, then they will probably carry on doing it. Even if you think its but the once, information technology more than likely won't be the only time. Non sure if this is about yourself or not OP, but if it is get yourself out of that situation asap.
Past violence is a very skillful indicator of future violence.
Women too corruption men, forty% of domestic abuse is against males, simply anyway.... If someone hits y'all one time, there is a chance they volition hit again and at that place is also a chance they will not hit again.
(Original postal service by WelshBluebird)
Can the thread be changed to partner? Because women hitting men too.
And the answer is yes. If they hit you once, then they will probably carry on doing information technology. Even if you recall its just the in one case, it more than likely won't be the only time.
I concur, 40% of domestic abuse is confronting men.
(Original mail by Mankytoes)
Non absolutely, merely it's a expert rule. The real question is, if he could do it once, why not once again? What was so terrible and extreme nearly that incident that y'all know it won't happen over again? Life is full of ****ty, stressful times, there'south no excuse for hitting women. Leave, leave, every fourth dimension.
No excuse for striking men as well
(Original mail past That_Hijabi)
What if you're married to them?
I recollect that's when yous become a niggling stuck..
We accept this groovy thing chosen divorce.
(Original post past DiddyDec)
We take this great thing called divorce.
No way, helm obvious.
What I meant is that if you're a married couple, it becomes harder to but just get out the person than if you were just dating for example. Y'all're much more than likely to be emotionally invested in the human relationship and just and then many other reasons.
(Original post by That_Hijabi)
No way, helm obvious.
What I meant is that if yous're a married couple, it becomes harder to simply merely leave the person than if you lot were merely dating for example. You're much more likely to exist emotionally invested in the relationship and just and then many other reasons.
If you lot value your rubber, you would brand the decision to leave.
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